Gremlin System Pronouns and Boundaries
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We use they/them collective pronouns
Moon: She/her, they/them, bun/buns, ech/echo
Dan: He/him
Claire: She/her
Brookelynn: they/ae/xem
Chase: He/him, they/them
Damien/Dawn/Ivory: Depends, please ask
Rose/Gold: No pronoun, please use Gold’s name where she/her,he/him, or they/them is supposed to go
Chloe: No pronouns, same thing as Rose
Dakota: She/him
Midnight: Any and all pronouns (this includes neopronouns)
Tommy: He/disc
Flori: She/her
Lyrah: mar/mars and mer/mers
Starlight/Atlas: Any pronouns
Storm: she/her
Void: they/them
Valley: any pronouns
Trinity/Riddle: No pronouns
Nadia: Mirror pronouns
Camila/Luna: it/its
Dream: he/him
Liam: he/him
Hallow: Haunt/Haunts, Sweet/Sweets, Candie/Candies
Colton: He/him
Cherry: She/they
Ranboo: he/they/end
Phil: He/him
Aurora: She/they
Niki Nihachu: she/cake
Punz: he/they/coin
Sam: he/they/gold
Violet: shey/they/kit/it
Puffy: any pronouns (preferably she/her)
(This will be edited as time goes on and more alters join the system)
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-We would like it if you used the correct pronouns for us.
-Please do not ask for a specific person to front. They will front whenever they feel
like fronting.
-Please don’t baby us or treat us as if we’re fragile.
-Don’t be scared of us because of the negative light Hollywood paints people with DID. We’re normal people, not people who want to hurt you, I promise.
-Please don’t reply to us with a dn joke/ use a dn joke on us. it makes us uncomfortable.
-Please don’t ask for our ages.
-Don’t ask us for our birthdays unless we have said to you that we’re ok with sharing them.
-Please don’t ask for our littles (alters usually under the age of 13 or 12) ages, birthdays, heights, what they look like or anything that can be used against them.
-If a little fronts and starts talking in a non-little chat, please do NOT interact with them because we don’t want people using them or making them feel bad.
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-If you don’t know us/we don’t have you friended, please ask us to dm us/friend us. (exclusive chat this doesn’t apply to y’all, feel free to dm/friend us whenever you want) - Moon
-If you have a name/nickname you want to call any of us, please run it by us first so we can give you the green light. - Dan
-Please don’t try to make inappropriate jokes around/about us, that makes us incredibly uncomfortable. - Moon
-Please don’t corner us into a certain situation or place us in a situation that is awkward for us. - Moon
-Please don’t excessively swear at me, direct negative comments towards me or other members in the system. - Claire
-Don’t piss off/make anyone else in the system uncomfortable or you’re going to have to deal with me. - Dan
-Please don’t make homophobic comments/jokes towards me, because I will act as gay as I want thank you very much. - Chase
-Please don’t make rude comments about me and don’t be homophobic to me, thanks. - Ivory/Damien/Dawn
-Please do not send gifs/images with water to me when I’m fronting. - Dakota
-Don’t send videos to me with thunder or lightning in them. - Dakota
-Same thing as Kota, but please don’t make mean comments/jokes about/around me, it’s mean. - Chloe
-Don’t be a bitch to me. - Midnight
-Um, please don’t mention Wilbur, Quackity, Dream or Sam around me. (He means the dsmp characters - Moon) - Tommy
-Don’t use ‘:)’ when replying to me or in your message directed towards me. - Tommy
-Please don’t send me images of buttons, tnt, the color lime, lava, the nether in general, small spaces, deep water, pits, or the prison. (He means these items in Minecraft, not irl - Moon) - Tommy
-Please don’t make jokes about me on how I look, act, or sound. - Lyrah
-Please don’t pressure me into saying something or telling you something. - Lyrah
-If I don’t want to talk about something, don’t pry. - Lyrah
-Don’t call me your friend unless I know you for a long time/trust you. - Lyrah
-Don’t use pet names for me please, makes me very uncomfortable please. - Lyrah
-Don’t call me your s/o or gf even if you mean it platonically, it makes me uncomfortable. - Lyrah
-If I don't understand something, please explain it to me and try to be rude about it - Void and Valley
-If I don't use tone indicators, please remind me and don't be rude about it - Void and Valley
-Don't baby my stutter - Void
-Please do not ask me to do things that I've said I don't want to do - Void
-Don't try to purposefully make me front or talk about my domain - Void and Valley
-Please don't treat me like a kid, I'm not a kid - Valley
-I'm energetic for a reason, do not try to get me to talk any different - Valley
-Please don't mock me signing off a message with my name, it makes me uncomfortable - Valley
-Don't joke about me being your partner or use phrases/petnames that you'd use for your significant other unless I'm dating you (which is highly unlikely since I'm in a relationship) or I've told you I'm ok with you calling me those phrases or pet names - Dan
-Don't physically touch me (online or irl) unless I give permission. I don't like hugs so please respect my wishes and don't give me hugs - Dan
-While I am an adult, don't make sexual jokes about me. Just because I make sexual jokes about myself, it doesn't mean you make sexual jokes about me. It's how I cope with my trauma - Cherry
-Do not make jokes about my husband or son being dead or hurt. - Ranboo
-Don't mention Dream around me please. - Ranboo
-Don't talk about my body or scars - Niki
-Don't call me Nikita unless I give you permission to - Niki
-Do not mention Wilbur or Schlatt around me (both c! btw) - Niki
-Do not call me nicknames unless I give you permission. Also do not call me your friend unless given permission. - Violet
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